“Do you care more about looks or personality?” We have all heard this question over and over. But it assumes that looks and personality are two separate things: one determines how physically attractive you find someone, and the other determines how much you enjoy their company. In reality, the two can actually be difficult to…
She seemed excited to meet you. She asked questions, flirted, and agreed to a date. Then her replies got shorter. She canceled, stopped responding, or said she didn’t feel a connection. You can’t think of a single possible reason for this sudden 180 shift on her part. And the worst part is that it has…
You meet someone you like. You go out, have a good time, and agree to see each other again. Then you barely hear from each other until the following week. “Are you free Friday?” “Sure. Seven?” Another date gets scheduled, but very little happens between dates. No phone calls. No real conversations. Maybe a text…
You texted her some time before that first date or after. She hasn’t responded. Now you’re wondering whether you should send another one. Maybe she missed it. Maybe she forgot to reply. Maybe a funny follow-up will get the conversation going again? My advice: leave it alone. Look around you just about anywhere you go. People…
“I’ve had a lot of success with online dating.”“I date a lot.” “I never have trouble finding men.” As a woman, you might say these things to communicate confidence or make it clear that you have options. You may expect a man to hear: Other men find me attractive. You should appreciate the opportunity to…
There are at least three major reasons why so many people complain that their conversations on dates or even while texting before their first dates, are devoid of any substance, let alone any type of intriguing flirting that would generate at least some romantic curiosity and further interest to get to know each other. Each…
1.The “three-day rule” to wait to get back to someone and generally acting uninterested or less interested than you really are This worked when not hearing back from the only person you met that month (or that year) increased intrigue and anticipation. However, in the age of endless swiping and low effort, delays in communication…
As we get loaded and overloaded with more and more information, and our attention span becomes shorter and shorter, it becomes even more important to capture the attention of our audience, whoever they might be, as early as possible. This applies as much to sales as it does to messaging women. If she has received…